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How To Be An Elegant Communicator

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I always love it when I hear a really elegant speaker. Barack Obama is elegant. Sean Connery is elegant. My first grade teacher, Miss Banta was elegant. I was mesmerized in her class when she always told us “extra” things in her lessons. Her enthusiasm was contagious. I can still remember the things she said and the way she used to float like a butterfly.

Elegance means not only a pleasing voice, but interesting, compelling, memorable content in what you say. People who sprinkle their speech with interesting stories, anecdotes, and novel tidbits of information always make us perk up and pay attention. These people are elegant communicators. The good news is, this is not a talent. It is skill, and it can be learned. This skill can be applied to public speaking or every day communication.

Elegance in communication is like Dress for Success only it goes deeper than the clothes. Elegant communication involves every part of your being: your actions, your speech, your nonverbal communication, your choice of words, and your character. Elegant communication involves your mannerisms, your manner of speaking and basically, your manners – to yourself and others – at all times, especially in a crisis. Elegance involves having grace under pressure.

Both men and women can be elegant communicators. John F. Kennedy was an elegant communicator, so was Abraham Lincoln, especially in his debates with Douglass — when as an unknown, he won the nation’s heart. Nobel Peace Prize laureate Aung San Suu-Kyi of Burma was one of the most elegant communicators of all times. In a violent pro-democracy protest, she could silence a crowd using only her eyes and immense dignity. And Nelson Mandela’s elegance and grace under extreme pressure and hardship helped change the world in the 20th century.

Many of the most elegant communicators of all times were not born with their skills, but worked very hard to acquire them. Grace Kelly was so ashamed of her harsh Philadelphia accent that she asked her father at 18 for a tape recorder and worked hours listening to her voice and correcting inflections with great discipline. Later, as a successful actress and Princess in Monaco, this discipline and determination made a monumental difference in her communication to the people of the Monaco, Europe, the world and helped her serve as an elegant ambassador of the American culture and people.

The ancient Greek orator Demosthenes was the classic example of someone who worked very hard to become an elegant communicator. He was born with a serious speech impediment, and people jeered at his stammering in his first public assembly. To learn to speak distinctly, he talked with pebbles in his mouth and recited verses while running uphill. (Not only did it force him to improve his speaking abilities, but also it got him in great physical shape (another aspect of being elegant.) To strengthen his voice, he spoke on the seashore over the roar of the waves. His discipline and determination helped him become one of the greatest orators of Ancient Greece.

You can learn the skills you need to become an elegant communicator. I call them the 12 Steps to Being an Elegant Communicator — guidelines you can follow that can change your life.

The 12 Ingredients of Elegant Communication(TM)

1. Honesty: Practice rigorous honesty in everything you do, all your transactions, all relationships

2. Confidence: Develop confidence, and exude it, without arrogance, help others to be confident.

3. Flexibility: Adjust and adapt quickly to unexpected changes. Life is “Plan B” – be adaptable to changes.

4. Passion: Exude passion in everything you do. Feel passion. Do things you are passionate about, do them often!

5. Practice: Practice hard, for long periods of time until you are tired, and practice often.

6. Praise: Be enormously encouraging to yourself and to others. Give Praise showers.

7. Play: Yes, play. If you want to be elegant, learn how to play. Play creates balance in our lives and allows us to be more creative and productive when we work.

8. Posture: When you have good posture, your performance improves. Don’t let yourself be lazy. Posture yourself as a person with good character and UNRELENTINGLY stay there, matter what the circumstance!

9. Physical fitness: Strive to be fit, it gives you confidence and keeps you at your best.

10. Be Interesting: Learn, have a varied life, read, go to workshops, study, have hobbies, have adventures!

11. Be interested: Have and show interest in others, ask questions often. Ask questions always!

12. Discipline: Be highly disciplined, find ways to bring discipline into your life. Have focus and use discipline to keep your focus. Have Goals, every day, every month, every year!



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American Actor: Jason Ritter

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Birth Name: Jason Morgan Ritter
Nickname: ‘Jace the Ace from Outer Space’
Height: 5′ 9″ (1.75 m)
Born: 17th February, 1980
Age: 30
Place: Los Angeles, California, U.S.

Jason Morgan is a movie and TV series actor, who was born on 17th February, 1980 in Los Angeles, California, United States. His parents are Nancy Morgan and John Ritter, who were both actors. He is the grandson of the actor/ musician Dorothy Fay and Tex Ritter. His siblings are Stella Ritter, Tyler and Carly Ritter. Jason stepmother is Amy Yasbeck. Jason Ritter is perhaps popular for his role in the ‘Joan of Arcadia’ TV series as Kevin Girardi and in the NBC television series The Event as Sean Walker. Jason Ritter spent a lot of summers in Estes Park, Colorado at the Cheley Colorado Camps.

He was graduated from the “Tisch School of the Arts” of the New York University where he attended at the “Atlantic Theatre Company”. Jason also attended at the Royal Academy of Dramatic Art in London. He also starred in the “The Dreamer of Oz: The L. Frank Baum Story.” Then he appeared in the 2002, movie PG and a year after he starred in the Swimfan. In the year, 2003, he had a main role in the horror movie Freddy vs. Jason in which he appeared as Rollins. He starred in Happy Endings and Raise Your Voice. He appeared in the Oliver Stone film “W” as Jeb Bush. In the year 2007, Ritter voiced substitute teacher in the ‘All Grown Up’ for animated character Mr. Fisk and then in the ‘The Rugrats’. Ritter newly released a movie ‘Good Dick’, in which he appeared along with girlfriend, Marianna Palka.

He also received several awards such as Clarence Derwent Award, Martin E. Segal Award and many more. He stars in “The Event”, a NBC drama series that premiered on 20th September, 2010.



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23-Year-Old Ashley Espinoza-Sanchez, Who Went Missing During Rolling Loud Festival in Miami, Has Been Found; Ended Up Hospitalized in Naples, FL, as a Man Reportedly Was Able To Help Her Get Medical Attention

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Last weekend, the first major hip-hop festival to return with fans in attendance was Rolling Loud, in Miami. The three-day festival featured performances from superstar such as A$AP Rocky, Travis Scott, Post Malone, 21 Savage, Lil Baby, DaBaby, Megan Thee Stallion, and more. This all went down at Hard Rock Stadium, home of the NFL’s Miami Dolphins.

A woman also went missing during that weekend, who ended up being identified as 23-year-old Ashley Espinoza-Sanchez, according to HotNewHipHop.com. A few days ago, Espinoza-Sanchez was reportedly found, as said by her cousin Demetria Madrigal.

It turns out that Espinoza-Sanchez was last seen with a man, who was IDed as “an unknown black male, 5′10″ – 6′0″, thin build.” He was actually who helped Espinoza-Sanchez, who may have been drugged by someone else. She was hospitalized in Naples, FL as well.

“She actually spent the night with this gentleman, which I need to reach out and thank him very much because she didn’t have any money, she didn’t have her phone, she didn’t have anything,” said Madrigal. “If he didn’t give her a place to sleep or give her shoes and socks she would have been wandering without anything.”

Madrigal hasn’t seen Espinoza-Sanchez since RL, but is definitely glad to have found out where she was. RL’s next festival will be held at Citi Field, in Queens, NY, from October 28-30.



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Megan Thee Stallion Reportedly Has Had The Biggest Crowd During a Lollapalooza Set So Far, This Weekend, With Over 180,000 Fans [VIDEO]

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Today is day four of Lollapalooza at Chicago’s Grant Park, as over 120,000 fans have been in attendance to see some of the biggest stars in the industry, such as Miley Cyrus, Roddy Ricch, Playboi Carti, Polo G, and more

Megan Thee Stallion also hit the stage last night, and needless to say, it was definitely lit. The H-Town Hottie performed some of her hottest hit records to date, and drew a massive crowd for her set.

Megan reportedly had 180,000 fans there, when she performed, which is reportedly the biggest crowd for an artist so far this weekend. Tonight’s headliners include the Foo Fighters, Young Thug, and more. DaBaby was scheduled to appear at Lollapalooza tonight, but was scrapped, after his homophobic and comments against people with HIV/AIDS, at Rolling Loud, last weekend.

Check out Megan Thee Stallion’s Saturday performance at Lollapalooza below.





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